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    Im sorry I wont mess with a female as far as relationship goes if she had kids already. Its just too akward for me with stuff like spankings or punishing them, trying to play a real father role to them and the fact that if you grow a strong bond with them and see them as your kids, if you and the woman end up breaking up she does not have to let you see them anymore. Step dad is everything I dont want to be.

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    fuck that bruh, baby daddy be hatin and shit.

    im 21, Jag paid off, associates degree, college debt paid off, jazz musician and shit . . . honestly, if you got some kids all you can be is a jump off to me.

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    It's prolly gone be some drama involved, but I can't hate on any man steppin up to the plate and raising another persons kids like his own. I found out a couple years ago my moms dad isn't her biological father but her step father. Only my moms youngest brother is my grandfathers actual son. So he raised my mom, her brother and sister and provided for them when they weren't his kids. My mom was 13 when they got married. So I gotta be thankful for people like that or my life coulda been a lot harder or may have never existed at all.

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    I don't PREFER to have a man with kids but I'm open to it for the most part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vice Gripp View Post
    It's prolly gone be some drama involved, but I can't hate on any man steppin up to the plate and raising another persons kids like his own. I found out a couple years ago my moms dad isn't her biological father but her step father. Only my moms youngest brother is my grandfathers actual son. So he raised my mom, her brother and sister and provided for them when they weren't his kids. My mom was 13 when they got married. So I gotta be thankful for people like that or my life coulda been a lot harder or may have never existed at all.
    i feel you but it could go the other way around. like i had a mean religious crazed so called step father who would get mad and act like we cuss him out if we accidentally farted, pick our nose, or blurp and stuff kids and early teens do. i don't mean kids been disrespect or disobedient. i mean kids stuff.


    he would get mad about everything.he even told me that i am not trying to be your father step father or even friend. do not get any ideals i am only doing this because of your mother? after i thank his ungrateful ass for getting me some fast food and letting me do some yard work for some money.

    i was 11 year old and he try to fight me and he was 40 year old because i went to the bathroom and i had too pee really bad. when my mom told me to pick up the ghetto basketball i created with a table and 3 chairs stacks together bucket. he was straight acting like these fatherless black bastard act today. i was shocked that a 40 year old man was acting like this and it had nothing to do with me.

    he be a pastor and be cussing and doing other stuff. truly a so called step father from hell. but i call it more like mom's boyfriend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vice Gripp View Post
    It's prolly gone be some drama involved, but I can't hate on any man steppin up to the plate and raising another persons kids like his own. I found out a couple years ago my moms dad isn't her biological father but her step father. Only my moms youngest brother is my grandfathers actual son. So he raised my mom, her brother and sister and provided for them when they weren't his kids. My mom was 13 when they got married. So I gotta be thankful for people like that or my life coulda been a lot harder or may have never existed at all.
    Yeah I remember when I found out my father was my grandfather's only child. He legally adopted my aunts and uncles when he and my grandmother got married. That's some honorable ass sh*t.

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    Quote Originally Posted by krazedpoetess View Post
    Yeah I remember when I found out my father was my grandfather's only child. He legally adopted my aunts and uncles when he and my grandmother got married. That's some honorable ass sh*t.
    Yeah that happened in my family too. Like my Aunt Gena is really my cousin, cuz she's my dad's older sister's daughter, but she was too into the alcohol when she had Gena to raise her so my grandfather legally adopted her and raised her. Every family is dysfunctional, but it's still family so you gotta do what you gotta do to handle any situation.

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